Joseph continues: ‘Then I shower, brush my teeth and drink something that has tons of flavour to get rid of any taste whatsoever. The 23-year-old guy from Somerset, UK says he feels dirty after he has sex and even has to change the sheets on his bed afterwards. ‘Then the guy would make small talk as we both got dressed and leave,’ he explains. ‘We talk on Grindr, he comes over, we get undressed and do the business. ‘My hookups go something like this,’ Joseph Bates – not his real name – explains.